Woman-coloured spectacles (by Lucy Moore)

Posted by: Andrew Wooding - 07 December 2009

Lucy Moore and her daughter and sonWhen Andrew at Share asked me to write up my thoughts on this subject, I thought I'd scan through the previous blogs to get an idea of length, style, need for wit, wisdom, searing theological insight, blah blah ... and got as far back as the last 25 posts before I realised that only 5 of those 25 are written by women. In fact, casting your eyes back through the past 10 blogs, you'd be hard-pushed to see that women feature at all in fresh expressions. Does this matter to you? How would someone outside the church perceive fresh expressions as an organisation if they read the same part of the website as I did? More importantly, how would they perceive Jesus if we're his reflection, his ambassadors? And is this bias typical of fresh expressions as a whole?

It can't be that women don't blog. It can't be that women aren't reflecting on fresh expressions as they lead them and belong to them. It could be that this 'one-fifth representation', together with the lack of women represented at the core of fresh expressions, is symptomatic of something deeper that needs addressing - and not just by women themselves.

You can get spectacles that filter out colours and force you to see the world in a particular way. If you put on metaphorical spectacles and look at the world through the eyes of gender equality, it soon becomes apparent that in fresh expressions / church planting / emerging church leadership there is still a huge gender imbalance. Sorry. I didn't want to believe it either as I love fresh expressions, but there it is. And yes, I feel very uncomfortable about raising this point as I want to get on with the fun of Messy Church, not get sidetracked into being labelled a bra-igniting Woman's Hour feminist, but who will raise this issue if I don't?

The lack of women represented at the core of fresh expressions is symptomatic of something deeper that needs addressing

No, I don't like wearing these spectacles, also because I soon become unable to see more important issues as I'm too distracted by gender questions (so busy fuming at the lack of female speakers, lack of stories from women leaders, the lack of pictures that show women as well as men, and so on), that I find I haven't listened to the wisdom of my male colleagues - you get the picture.

But if we, as practitioners of fresh expressions or more simply just as Christians, are concerned with justice, reaching the marginalised, giving outsiders opportunities to grow in faith, surely we should be doubly conscious of injustices in our own front room and challenge each other to right these easily rightable wrongs - from the point of view of witness to the rest of society if nothing else! And how much more gracious it all becomes if those calling for justice are not the ones being marginalised; how much more powerful it would be if it was a man writing this blog? (Ah, no, that would make it 5/26.)

At a seminar recently at a church planting conference, Penny Marsh and I were asking the question: 'Is church planting just for blokes?' We managed to lure two genuine blokes in to join the women. (How? Cake.) Between us, we came up with a lot of meaty ideas as to the possible causes for this perception and possible responses to the state of play, and you can read more here.

Language, history, culture, having babies, leadership styles, structural blind spots and more come into it. Do have a gander.

And now, stamping on my smouldering underwear and grubbing around in the ashes for a pair of contact lenses, I shall return to the messiness of my real passion.

Lucy works for BRF as team leader of Messy Church, proud to be the single most prolific cake-consuming expression of church in the English- (and now Danish-) speaking world. You can find out more about the Messy interdenominational, international, intergenerational network on www.messychurch.org.uk.

 

Comments

Hear, hear!

Posted by Frances Shoesmith on 07 December 09 - 16:37

Thank you Lucy! As a female Pioneer Minister, working on a House for Duty basis (so essentially unpaid)(sic), and working with a small Fresh Expression (low numbers, but intensive relationships) (sic), it was encouraging (sic) and affirming (sic) to read this, and also the piece on the BRF website.
I'm currently on sabbatical and about to head off on holiday, but please can we have a conversation about this in January?

why so few women

Posted by Rosie Ward on 08 December 09 - 10:04

It was fascinating to read this post - things I have said in the past and more recently. And why I did some research on women and church planting 15 years ago - because it looked as though no women were involved. I'd love to see this issue highlighted more widely....

Whatever happened to....

Posted by Pam Smith on 09 December 09 - 09:37

Andrew Jones (tallskinnykiwi) has done a blog on this recently, highlighting Shannon Hopkins who started a cafe church in Texas in the 90s and went on to start the Truth Isn't Sexy campaign about human trafficking but who has dropped off the radar as far as 'emerging church leadership' is concerned. Andrew himself has commented

"She was never a member of the emerging church book club, and did not want to be. Instead she was just getting on with the job. Like the majority of ec leaders."

People do tend to be judged on what they say about themselves rather than what they're actually doing. Maybe it was always thus, but exacerbated by Web2.0 where it is much easier to write about yourself in the public arena than ever before.

Personally, blogging about myself comes way down on my list of priorities, but if I'm not prepared to spend time publicising my activities I suppose I can hardly complain if no-one takes any notice of me!

Posted by Pam Smith on 09 December 09 - 09:39

Link to Andrew's blog - which is generally well worth a read, since he really knows his way around the emerging church landscape -

http://tallskinnykiwi.typepad.com/tallskinnykiwi/2009/12/what-ever-happened-to-the-girl-who-started-the-emerging-church-network.html

women leaders and women members

Posted by David Muir on 09 December 09 - 10:45

I am very aware of how many men are involved in leadership of FXs. Maybe we have just been in traditional church longer, so there are more of us and perhaps we are also more deeply disillusioned. Quite a few women with a sense of calling are still being 'soaked up' by traditional church, especially with the present emphasis on NSMs. I wonder if FXs are as men-focused in terms of their membership? My experience of AltWorship communities is that they attract quite a lot of men. If however our FXs are typically led by men and populated by women (as traditional church), we are in deep trouble...

Women in leadership

Posted by Judy Redman on 28 December 09 - 10:05

Lucy, you say "surely women blog" and they do, but they blog on different things to men. The proportion of women bloggers in the biblioblogging (biblical studies, loosely) community is tiny, although I don't think the proportion of women doing biblical studies is anywhere near as low. Women who blog and identify as Christian tend not to blog about "church" - but about personal faith issues.

Women tend not to be in high profile leadership positions in the church. Even in my own denomination, which has had ordained women since its inception in 1977, allows for lay as well as ordained leadership and generally suggests that women should be equal to men in all things has had very, very few women leaders at the state level and only one at the national level.

While I totally agree that fresh expressions is in deep trouble if it doesn't get out of this pattern, I think that it is going to have to be done intentionally or we will simply move our leadership patterns across from the traditional.

Further research

Posted by Liz Palin on 08 March 10 - 15:04

I'm hoping to explore this as my dissertation topic for my MA in applied theology , so would love to talk to women pioneer ministers about this issue. Keep the conversation going! I'll let you know if my proposal gets accepted!