How might you discern God's call?

Helpful questions to ask as you prayerfully discern God's call might include:

  • Do you have a passion or interest you could share with others?  Passions are often the starting point of fresh expressions.

    One person goes kite-flying with friends, both because he enjoys it and in the prayerful hope that this will evolve into church.

    Can you imagine how you might share your passion, share your life, share your faith and eventually share the journey of others in the group as they travel into the heart of God's love?

    If this – understandably – seems rather daunting, remember that it is best not to do it on your own. Is there a Christian friend or work colleague who could join you?

  • Are you fully committed to the values that inspire fresh expressions For example, are you willing for your views to change as you listen to the people you are called to serve? 

    Are you prepared to leave some of your preconceptions about church behind? Is forming community a priority for you? Are you willing to keep learning and to share what you have learnt?

  • Who do you want to work with?  In particular, do you want to be a cross-cultural missionary within your own country, serving people from a very different culture to yourself? Or do you want to work with your friends and colleagues, who are more like you?
  • Can you see any openings for a fresh expression? For example, if common interests can be a starting point for fresh expressions, what are the passions of people round you? Might they provide an opportunity for fresh expressions? In particular,

    1. Can you see any opportunities among your friends, or among colleagues and contacts in your school, workplace, club or neighbourhood?

    2. Are there opportunities on the fringe of your local church, or beyond the fringe?

    3. Who are the networkers in your congregation, the individuals with plenty of contacts? Might they see opportunities among their networks?

    4. What are the passions of members of the congregation or of your friends?

'What's your motivation?' 'Have you got a love for the people you want to work with?'

You may well want to seek advice.  Which of your friends might you consult? Have you spoken to your minister? Have you talked this through with your spiritual director or mentor? If they asked the following questions, how would you respond?

  • 'What's your motivation?'
  • 'Have you got a love for the people you want to work with?'
  • 'Are you being realistic about what would be involved?'
  • 'Have you got time?'
  • 'What gifts would you bring?'
  • 'Would you need to be released from other activities in the church?'
  • 'Are you tuned into God?'

Might you take time out for extended prayer and reflection?  As you do this, you might ask:

  • What themes has God built into my life? Do they suggest a call?
  • Praying handsWhat stirs me?
  • What means a lot to me?
  • What vision for my life has God given to me?
  • Has he confirmed that vision?
  • What do others see in me?
  • What has been asked of me by my church/denomination?

Is God calling me to be involved?

 

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Posted by Claire Alcock on 03 September 08 - 10:15

I would seriously appreciate a chat with someone who knows about ordained pioneer ministry and could help me discern whether it's for me. I have done one year's ordination training already on the Oxford Ministry Course at Ripon College Cuddesdon and have been involved in a low-key fresh expression in our village for three years. I went through the general vocation process with my DDO without any real opportunity to explore whether this type of ministry is what I am being called to. It's not too late to change my category to Ordained Pioneer Minister but I would have to be pretty certain about it to begin pushing the door myself. I could do with some encouragement and guidance before I go and see the DDO again.

Posted by Andrew Wooding on 08 September 08 - 14:04

Hello clairelouise,

This is quite timely. A good starting point might the just-released DVD on Ordained Pioneer Ministry - called on the edge - produced by Fresh Expressions and available here:

http://freshexpressions.org.uk/shop

If you need any other help, just let us know!

Andrew, Share co-ordinator

Posted by Claire Alcock on 15 September 08 - 11:34

Thanks for this. I have it on order. What I really need is a more tailored-to-me approach. For instance, when you go through your preparation for going forward to a BAP you read books and may watch a DVD on ministry but sooner or later you need to talk someone who is skilled in the discernment of vocation and who asks you searching questions about your situaton. I saw two local advisors (both priests) and then had at least ten sessions with the DDO. Then I went to the BAP and was recommended for training. But to test a call to Ordained Pioneer Mnistry, who is there to talk to?

Posted by Claire Alcock on 29 September 08 - 14:42

Andrew,
Is there such a thing (person) as as vocations advisor who specialises in the discernment of Ordained Pioneer Ministry? Can you suggest someone?
Thank you.

Posted by Emily Tidball on 29 September 08 - 09:35

Hi claireloiuse,

I'm not sure whether this will be helpful to you but I went to an open day at Trinity College, Bristol last autumn and was also exploring OPM. The principal, George Kovoor, joined us for breakfast and I asked him about OPM courses. He said that they do not have a specific course at Trinity as they believe all ministry should be pioneering. You can do practical training at Trinity so that you are involved in parish life and can try things out. I was really excited by what he had said and the practical training that I could do. It may be something you could look at. Hope this helps.

Posted by Claire Alcock on 29 September 08 - 14:32

Hi Emily,
Thanks for your comment, Emily. It's not really practical for me to do training anywhere other than the course I am currently on, as I have three school age children and our family is firmly based in Oxfordshire, where my husband works. I think what I'm looking for is a vocations advisor who specialises in OPM discernment. Is there such a person I ask myself...!

Posted by Emily Tidball on 30 September 08 - 16:24

I have found the focus to be very traditional when I have been to the fellowship of vocations and DDO meetings in our diocese. Unfortunately, this has resulted in me doubting whether I really fit in the anglican denomination. Last autumn, the vocations advisors I spoke to were just about to go on a conference about OPM and didn't know much about it, themselves. I hope you find someone who is able to help. Are there any OPMs who you've been able to speak to or that you know of who may be able to help you think about it?

How do I discern a call?

Posted by Claire Alcock on 01 October 08 - 12:59

I think you're right Emily about vocations advisors needing up to the minute training about OPM. It's very different to move from thinking in a maintenance model to one of outwardly- focussed mission. It's like the tension I have felt between a calling to priesthood and yet feeling I'm really an evangelist. There are a couple of people on my course whom I have spoken to, but they do not necessarily have the skill or time that a good vocations advisor can give to draw you out; they are facing their own issues too. You're not alone in struggling with how much of your identity is actually Anglican. I often feel like an interloper! I really appreciate your comments and hope you discover the right direction for yourself. Are you seeing a DDO?

Posted by Emily Tidball on 05 October 08 - 16:32

I'm in the process of gwtting back in touch with a DDO after a few months out. Our DDO has just moved on though and not yet been replaced. Since I last spoke to the DDO I have become involved in a network church which I feel a lot more comfortable in and have just started the MSM course which has made me think I'm ready to 'get on with it' again!